In 2013, musician Li Kuncheng dating Lin Jingen, who was 40 years younger than him and was still a 17-year-old high school student, became the "Sunyan" who had been in a while back then. Now 10 years later, on the 9th, Lin Jingen revealed...
In 2013, musician Li Kuncheng dating Lin Jingen, who was 40 years younger than him and was still a 17-year-old high school student, became the "Sunyan" who had been in a while back then. Now 10 years later, on the 9th, Lin Jingen revealed Li Kuncheng's death in his face, which shocked and regretted the outside world.
In response to reports, Lin Jingen revealed that he did not originally have a marriage plan. It was not until Li Kuncheng was hospitalized for kidney cancer. Some hospital documents required family signatures. He decided to register for a marriage registration in the ward for such real problems. Under the verification of the medical staff, the simple wedding ceremony was completed in the ward.
?Influenced by traditional tribute, old husbands marrying young wives are often ridiculed by unpleasant adjectives such as "old cows eat young grass", "old men love to eat young", and "old people don't practice", and are often eye-catching, such as Nobel winner Yang Zhenning married 28-year-old Weng Fan at 82 years old, with the difference between the two being 54 years old. There are also many cases in the entertainment industry, such as the late "Frog Prince" Gao Lingfeng and his third wife Kim You-chung are 19 years apart.
Lin Yanqing, a professor at the Institute of Sex Studies at the University of Temperament, once interviewed and said that due to the gap in age, there are generations of "the match between the elderly and the young". For example, Yang Zhenning once admitted that due to the age gap, there is indeed a generation between the two of them, Weng Fan.
Usually in the combination of the older and younger men, men often have high social status and successful careers, and are veterans in love or marriage; women have a young body and a young mind, which is easier to be manipulated. The older one can get the joy of control, while the younger one can get comprehensive care by just taking it easy.
The woman, the sensible, had been interviewed and pointed out that the marriage between men and women is mostly due to men being a little older. This is because older men usually have a stable economic foundation, are mentally mature, and have more charm to attract the other party. In addition, they can tolerate some minor mistakes from their wives. However, if the age gap exceeds 15 years old, the two may face social pressure. However, as long as the two people are in harmony, have a spirit, and are mentally prepared and mutually adapted, they can still have a beautiful marriage even if they are viewed by the outside world.
As for the situation of an old couple or a young couple, it also needs to withstand social pressure and the acceptance of the next generation. Therefore, the key is to think quietly and ask yourself what the reason for choosing the other party as a lasting companion, and to have a considerable psychological preparation and fit with each other in order to have a long and happy marriage.
The most common problem that the elderly and young people encounter is sex?Statistical data show that there is a common problem of sexual incongruence in "old-aged and young" marriages. The main reason is that middle-aged and elderly men between the ages of 40 and 60 have erectile dysfunction, such as inability to erect or insufficient erectile hardness, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife and male self-confidence. Urology physician Wu Zhengzhe once recommended during his visit that it is likely related to factors such as late marriage, high work pressure, abnormal lifestyle and lack of exercise.
Sexuality decreases with age, which is a natural physiological degeneration phenomenon. In addition to age factors, epidemiological syndrome, obesity, staying up late, smoking, alcoholism, etc. can also cause a decrease in testosterone concentration, further affecting erectile function. Therefore, men should pay attention to physical changes and health management after they are over 40 years old.
Whether it is a "young and young" or a "sibling", the age gap will have a major impact on physiology and psychology. It is recommended that both parties communicate with each other, and serious circumstances require medical help. It is best for couples to go to the door for a clinic together so as to understand the actual situation and avoid misunderstandings. Aging is a normal process. After entering middle age, men should also understand their body changes and prevent and treat related problems. When necessary, you can find appropriate medical and physical and mental treatment methods.
In addition, most people think that when they are old, they should not have sexual behavior, and even think that it is harmful to the body when they are too old. However, urology physician Wu Jiru once visited and pointed out that he should maintain an openness and regular sex life for the silver hair sex life. Even if hypertension and diabetes can cause erectile dysfunction in men, proper treatment and control, having a "sexual" and beautiful sex life will help his body health.
