When we were young, we used "Long Life" as a blessing to our elders, thinking that a hundred years old is a blessing. When we become "longs" and live in an era when everyone may "live a hundred years old", we find that...
When we were young, we used "Long Life" as a blessing to our elders, thinking that a hundred years old is a blessing. When we become "longs" and live in an era when everyone may "live a hundred years old", we find that a hundred years old is not just a blessing, but also brings a lot of anxiety. The "Entertainment Generation" series of reports will explore the new concerns in the senior society and the ways everyone can use to meet these concerns.
The old lady felt uncomfortable in her body, and it was normal for various examinations. The doctor transferred her to the clinic of Cai Jiafen, director of the Department of Geriatric Psychiatry of General Rong. Cai Jiafen diagnosed her with panic disorder, and her grandmother denied, "I have money and house, and the sir is very good to me, there is nothing to worry about."
Cai Jiafen asked, "You said you will suddenly be so scared that your body can't hold back. What are you afraid of?" "I'm afraid my husband will die before me," grandmother said quietly, "Or, I will die before my husband."
Cai Jiafen has many 100-year-old patients who are very similar to the old lady. They do not meet any diagnosis, nor have related diseases, and cannot be treated with medicine. They are often called anxiety disorders, but behind them are anxiety about death.
The victim of death is that it must have happened, and it cannot be expected when it will happen. Cai Jiafen said that this is the survival anxiety of this generation of elderly people. In the past when their lives are not long, people are always busy until the last moment of their lives before falling down and have no time to die. In modern times, global competition, information explosion, epidemics, earthquakes and other disasters have made it unrest and changed, and has destroyed the natural world view in the past, and the feeling of being lost and incomprehensible has deepened the anxiety.
Faced with the fear of death, experts suggest "do one thing early"The multi-changing world challenges the limits of regular medicine, and in recent years, various types of assisted blood circulation, such as energy medicine, aromatherapy, garden therapy, and even soul auras of various schools. Cai Jiafen believes that treatment does not require sticking to tools. No matter how good the treatment is, people will be ineffective. There are also patients who are considered to have ineffective results. As long as it is useful, it is a good method.
She explained that many aids in medicine, such as aromatherapy, moxibustion, energy medicine, etc., have proven their therapeutic effects. But there are also many cults that cannot only cure the body and mind, but also ask you and others to pay for money. She called for the best choice for a regular medical psychiatry or counseling. If you seek help with medical assistance, you must also confirm whether it is legal. The practitioner has unnational certification qualifications.
She explained that good quality of life has reached a balance in the "body and mind spirit", and "body" health has improved greatly with the advancement of modern medicine; "psychology" has caused many problems due to the great environment, and the demand for consultants in all ages has increased significantly; and "spiritual" Needs come from the pursuit of the anxiety about death and the meaning of existence. It takes time. Most people always wait until death is in front of them before facing each other. The time is short and they can only deal with the exterior. She believes that the pursuit of spirit does not have to wait until old age. When a middle-aged person has anxiety, they must start.
