You can’t get into a kitchen, and you can’t have a child! Wang Feng is divorced in middle age "accepts his imperfection" and finds his best role

Wang Feng has been in the acting circle for more than 30 years. She has been playing theaters, movies, TV, and has been involved in the golden horses and 3-degree hits. She has more than 70 works and she plays like everything, but she still has "unable roles" in her life, that is, "daughter-in-law".

Wang Yi ended his four-year marriage at the age of 39. She recalled that when she met, her mother passed away and her father fell ill. In order to complete the marriage pressure given by her family, she decided to get married when she was not ready. "I didn't think it through clearly. I felt that it was bound to be separated. It was like the fact that the show was not over, and she felt that she would be divided at that time, so four years ended."

{99 9} {99 When she recalled this marriage, she said, "It's so difficult, I chose a big problem." At that time, her partner was the only male in the family and her mother was a widow. In this family relationship, "transferring the clan" became an important topic in the social atmosphere at that time. Wang said, "It's because she didn't recognize the difficulty. "She admitted that although her sister had a reminder before marriage, she didn't know if it was because of her nature. She just wanted to take responsibility for her choice and love the world. Speaking of this, she laughed at her young stimulation: "It's very irritating, killing herself."

"My wife is easy to act, but my daughter-in-law is not easy to act." Wang Ying laughed humorously, "It's so work I'm tired, I still have to work when I go home, so tired! How could it be possible?" But she said that the two of them had worked hard to be human and tried every trick. Thinking that Yang Liyin taught her to drink garlic wine to help pregnancy at that time, she heard folk remedies and smiled half-dead, and said, "I tried hard but didn't happen (pregnancy)."

In fact, the biggest cause of failure may be from pressure. Wang Feng's ex-mother-in-law lives under the building of her and her ex-husband. She will open the door and go upstairs with her backing keys to help her swipe. As long as she stays at home, she will be surprised. This behavior also makes her feel like she has done something wrong and feels frustrated. She smiled and said, "Part of the reason is that I really don't know how to organize my home." Not only did she swipe, but her cookery was also discarded.

The pressure of giving birth to a child. If you wander around your home, you can't get into the kitchen, and you can't get a child. She was concerned about giving birth to a child by her mother-in-law. "You don't even sound?" She smiled and tried, "Look at how much pressure it is!" Although this matter is funny now, she was very resistant that year, "This is not love at all, there is a feeling of being responsible to others." She could only distract herself by working to bury her head. Before returning home, she had to turn outside before returning home. However, when she stood on the first floor, she couldn't feel trembling when she saw her mother-in-law's floor still lit up. The resistance from inside to outside was already generated in the diving.

She started to choose to escape in this marriage, and her ex-husband did not get married. She also thought that the relationship between husband and wife would definitely be bad after a long time. In the end, she chose to move out. "I have reached a place where I have no way to live together. This is a very sad thing. I have no way to eat, and the pressure is too great." She admitted that she was very disgusted at that time. Happy, she hid in the "Screen Style Performance Class" to work, lived with her friends in Nuannuan District, Keelung City, far away from the dust. She said, "I am very grateful for my job at that time. The feeling of the incident was a cumulative one. I only felt that I could let go of it in the end. Everyone knows that there is a crack in (marriage) and I don't ask for it, I only have company."

Breakup consultation Family and friends are with you

Wang Liying also remembered that when she was separated, a reporter asked her about the marriage status. She told the other party, "We are dealing with it, can we say it again." Fortunately, the environment at that time treated the two people well, and did not cause too much pressure. She also adhered to the principle of "breaking up without saying bad words", so that things could be left to the couple. At that time, when she faced her life test, she could understand the other party and communicate more with others. As the story goes, she said as if she had figured it out: "Maybe because of this mentality, I don't have that feeling of suffering later. I think I'm still full of this matter."

But where did this "uniformity" come from? Wang thought for a while and said, "This is still subtle. I think maybe I will see what others are doing to me better. If you have good friends who love me, my friends will not let me be alone. They will ask me to come out to eat and chat at any time, but I don't ask (feelings). My friends respect me very much, and I didn't mention it either. Then I chose not to. It’s a difficult way for friends. Because we (Wang Yan and ex-husband) have mutual friends, I will retreat to the back. I don’t want them to choose, so there was a time when I didn’t contact them, which made me less need to complain about the suffering. Otherwise, if I talked about it once or twice, I would magnify that suffering. That suffering is really true. "

Marriage ended Responsibility for what I chose

Wang Wei continued: "I chose to take on all my responsibilities. I feel that I should have to start from deciding to enter marriage, until all the stories of marriage are separated, and it has nothing to do with my family. The less they know, the less emotional fluctuations they have, they will not show any difficulty or trouble in front of me, so I will stop here." Her strength at this time was no longer the love she decided at first. I gave all my strength, but really had the attitude I chose to be responsible for. Fortunately, my family and friends were accompanied in the gentlest way. This made Wang Qing smiled and said, "I have great family and I have great friends."

What's amazing is that after she signed a divorce, she cried when she returned home, "I clearly got freedom, but I felt that freedom was actually at a loss.". She always felt that she had become someone else's "plug" in this relationship. The water would flow clean after being pulled up. Until one day her friend told her "You're not a plug", she burst into tears in surprise, "Why did I think so small!"

Curious and unlimited The national mother continued to release

. Wang was grateful for her marriage for only four years. She said, "Otherwise, it would be terrible until I was this age. I only realized that it was difficult after getting married." Her personality became "not for granted". Her idea of being the center of the world before marriage was broken, and her strong personality was worn out for four years. Such life experience also makes her more impressed in the role of a daughter-in-law and wife in the play. Only the role of "Mom" has never experienced her real life.

Wang Feng was divorced in middle age and chose to "accept that she is imperfect". Although there are cracks in her life, it is also a place where light comes in. She bravely started her new trial and turned to the film circle to develop after she was 40 years old, which also allowed her to win three golden bell awards and join the golden horse awards, achieving the "national mother" seal among many people.

Not only did she gain something in her career, she began to take care of herself. When she learned the beauty, she became gentle and strong, but she accepted imperfection. She said: "I coexist with those stories in the past, and be quick after it, and face it." Now her life is still wonderful at the age of 57. She remains curious, does not set herself, and does not let her age become a barrier to release.