"Are you my son's girlfriend? How long have you been dating? How did you know my son?" Early in the morning of the holiday on the class, I called the girls' dormitory to find a lesbian, and the slashing of the head was a bunch of p...
"Are you my son's girlfriend? How long have you been dating? How did you know my son?" Early in the morning of the holiday on the class, I called the girls' dormitory to find a lesbian, and the slashing of the head was a bunch of problems.
"Who are you? I don't know what you mean." The lesbian who was named to answer the phone was still foggy.
The other end of the call tube started to spell, accusing her of misleading her son's future. Only then did the lesbian realize that the person who was coming to her boyfriend's mother, and she had not yet met her formally until she dated. She did not expect that she would be treated like this when she first called.
"Auntie, are there any mistakes between us?" Although the other party's attitude is not polite, he is still successful, and the lesbian still hopes to communicate rationally.
"Don't pretend to be handsome! There is no misunderstanding between us. Please leave my son a little longer. He can only have a girlfriend in his ties!" After speaking the last sentence, her boyfriend's mother called and did not give her any chance to answer.
There is a male student in the medical department who met an outsider girl during a social event. Although the two were dating publicly at school, the boy never dared to mention it at home and had a girlfriend from a non-medical department. The reason is that his family values "blood sect" very much. Male members have to become doctors and marry doctors. Even if female members fail to get into the medical department, they will find ways to marry a doctor. Therefore, when he dated girls from non-medical departments, he was equivalent to committing a family taboo, and the elders were quite dissatisfied.
Faced with the pressure of the family, the boy always guaranteed in front of the girl: "Give me some time, so don't let my mother know the news of our relationship first, but you don't worry, no matter what my mother says, she is her, I am me." Also, because the relationship between students is still a long way to go and get married, the girl does not pressure the boy. Both of them believe that as long as they truly love each other, there is nothing difficult to overcome.
Unfortunately, the paper couldn't contain the fire. The boy's mother found out from the computer communication record of her son that the girl was dating was thundering at home, and she actually hit the girl's dormitory and asked for her guilt. Among his mother's values, the child's condition is that the person who is right is right, and to be honest and honest, he must be "pure and honest."
After such a big thing, the boy was so mean that he calmed down his girlfriend's feelings: "I promise that I will convince my family to accept the facts of our relationship, and I will protect you and not let you suffer any grievances."
From childhood to adulthood, boys have been on the life path planned by their parents, without any rebellion, but in order to defeat their love, this was the first time he mustered up the courage to resist; before a family gathering, he made a request to bring his girlfriend to attend.
Sure enough, his mother replied in one bite, "I don't want you to come back with an outsider. Please ask what her identity is? And your brother and sister-in-law who are doctors will attend. The whole family talks about the hospital. Can she interfere?" These sour words pointed out that his girlfriend was not from a medical department and was not qualified to become a member of the family.
"Why do your girlfriend have to be in the medical department? Isn't she a good girl if she doesn't study in the medical department?"
"It's okay if she is not a medical department. I have several friends in the club. My daughters are in the law department. If you like it, you can introduce it. To be honest, it's natural to be bad in the course of work. It’s not much better to go. People like this who are not in high school and cannot get the first choice for the first time. I won’t believe how good she is. I will not believe it. I will give up early and break up before getting deeper and deeper! ”
The conversation ends without falling apart. With no intersection, the relationship between the two can only be changed from open to underground. Unfortunately, one day a girl had acute gastritis. The boy was met by her cousin who was in the hospital while accompanying her to see a doctor. It is conceivable that another wave of storms occurred at home.
I can't bear the heavy mental pressure. One day, the boy's love collapsed in his girlfriend's heart. The girl made a secret decision in her heart that she had to face it.
She intends to talk to her boyfriend's mother.
"Aunt, I know you don't like me, but please give me some minutes?" I deliberately chose the boy's time to have class, and the girl invited the boy's mother to meet at a cafe near the school.
"My patience and time are limited, so just say anything if you have it!"
"Apart from not being a medical department, please ask me what I did wrong? Or can I correct something?"
"If I fail to get into the medical department, my lack of ability is not your fault, but my fault is dating my son, and my fault is my delusion to climb up Our family, what you can correct is to leave yourself."
"In your eyes, is it hard to have a future in medical science? Is it hard to have a doctor's degree, as long as you are not a doctor, you are not worthy of dating people in your family?" The temper that has been holding back, finally I can't stand the repeated sarcasm and sarcasm, and there is no reason for such sarcasm.
"Tell me these are useless. You can go and find someone who is as good as you. I think you know that no one will bless you when you are together. Now you are feeling fresh to him, so he will fight against his family. If you force me to kill me, then he will change his request for points. It was hard to see. "
This mother said that she had done everything. She used the means to control the economy and forced people to keep her rent and water, and she paid directly for the rent, water and electricity. The cost of every meal, transportation shopping must be paid through invoices, so that the boys don't have much money in their pockets. You must report anywhere you go, and you will suddenly check his communications and phone records.. Under the pressure of economic, time and mental stress, this period of student affairs finally ended up breaking up. After graduating from school, he entered the hospital to work. The first decision the boy made was to move out and live outside. After robbing his mother's supervisor and economic independence, he met the second girl in his life, a nurse working in the same unit.
"Do you still have a habit when you live outside? Have you ever met a suitable partner? Do you need to introduce it?" Occasionally, the mother and the son would still chat on the phone. The mother is a little anxious that the child has not had a girlfriend in the past few years.
"I have a girlfriend now, and I am a colleague in the hospital."
"Really! That's great. I'll ask her to come back home for a meal another day. Which department is she from?"
"She is not a doctor, she is a nurse, and she is very kind. I like her very much."
"Why don't you listen to it? Just play with it in the student era. Why don't people who have left society and want to get married without a female doctor?" The mother began to teach him again, but she still couldn't help but edit the characteristics, brain, character, tutoring and other logic that was unrelated to the harmonious marriage.
"Mom, I'm sorry. I'm already independent from home. Please respect my choice." There was no big noise or roar this time, and the boy quit the phone coldly.
This night, it was the nighttime nurse who was busy, and an angry woman broke into a big crack at the nursing station, and the loud volume caused many patients and their homes.
"I ask you to break up with my son immediately, and you are not allowed to complain about him anymore!" His son was uncontrollable, and the unreasonable mother turned the spear towards the heroine.
"Do you know what you are talking about? It was your son who came to chase me." The heroine was not a fuel-efficient light. She responded without any politely to the unforgettable slander.
Maybe he had already become ill of her face, but now he was hit by his son and the bad woman he said, and this mother was even more furious.
"If you can't slap this, you dare to say it's not because of his doctor's identity? Do you dare say it's because you like our whole family has green cards? If you don't accept the pursuit, he won't be with you."
"Our relationship is because of cherishing each other, not because of their status."
"You think he protects you, so you don't have to care about my mother. Is it? Even if you don’t separate, you can’t get into our family. And our whole family is a doctor. What status can you have? You are looked down upon and I can’t control you, but why do people in the family look at my son? Do you hope he will never have any relationship with the family for you? If you really love him, think about it for him." The last sentence of my boyfriend’s mother reminded the girl that she had thought about it in midnight dreams, but she never dared to face it.
In the next few days, she received high-level care from the nursing department. Although the chief officer did not interfere with the private life of the department, she also said that her boyfriend's parents are powerful people in the medical field. They used many channels to pressure the hospital, hoping that she would understand what to do.
"It is not my fault that your family doesn't accept me; it is not your fault that you can't let your family accept me. Your mother's right and the strong combination will be bad for you and me, and I don't want to be a sinner who destroys your relationship with your family. Don't look for me again, go back to be your mother's good son!" One night, the boy returned to the suite where the two of them lived together and found that the person was empty and there was only one short line of words.
"Why do you have to give up? Wouldn't she be happy with the abandonment?" My girlfriend's colleague said that she disappeared after she hurriedly took over the job. The boy made a crazy call and left this passage in his voicemail.
After that day, the girl broke up with him; in the same way, he broke up with his home. He never attended the gathering of the family again, and he was never the only one left in the place. My mother called him several times, either not answering or immediately disconnecting. After trying to find someone at the hospital where he worked, the news he received was actually that he had left his job.
"Do you know where your brother is now? If you can contact him, tell him to come back and have time to have a meal." Even though there was no audio news for these two years, the mother still missed her son. She knew that her daughter and her brother had always had a good relationship, or maybe she knew something about it.
"My brother is not in China at present. He applied for a doctorate in the study of the country two years ago."
After four years of turning around, this old classmate successfully obtained a doctorate degree in China. Several of our good friends helped him to hold a dinner party. During the meeting, he mentioned that he would hold a wedding banquet in China in the near future. His wife was the nurse who left him that year.
"The world is so big, how can you meet again?" I am quite curious about this difficult division.
"It's not a reunion, it's me who chased me to the United States." Putting down the wine glass, he said quietly about his experiences over the years. "I turned from each other's friends to learn that she went abroad to relax, and she chased me without saying that she had bought a ticket. At first, she still didn't want to get back together, and then she slowly allowed her to accept this relationship again. In order to leave the innocence of ignorance I simply applied to study abroad, so the two started again in the different towns. "
"Where is at home? What do your mother thinks about this?" At that time, there were almost no one who knew about his mother and no one was unfamiliar with each other. We also knew that since then, he had never had any contact with her home, so another friend was very concerned.
"Let's say it again! I haven't thought about it yet." After pondering for a while, he didn't seem to want to talk about this sensitive topic.
"I'm back to Taiwan, let's have a meal together at noon today!" Although the phone spoke coldly, I heard that the long-lost Baoba son came, and the mother was still overjoyed.
"Are you happy these years? What are you busy with recently?"
"I've been very good and got married at noon today. ”
●Book introduction
There is a silver egg called Peter. He was a young student in the hospital: borrowing points, deserting military service, wearing a helmet to go to the morning meeting. Author: Fu Zhiyun
Publisher: Times Publishing Date: 2017/03/14
Author Profile/Fu Zhiyun Peter Fu
Emergency Surgery of Exercise, Associate Professor of Chang Geng Hospital, Chairman of the Academic Committee of the Taiwan Exercise Medical Association, and creator of the text.
He has been in medicine for many years. He is committed to treating external injuries and acute and severe patients. He is committed to the first scene of emergency surgery, witnessing the power of life and deeply observing human nature. He is currently serving at Linkou Chang Geng Memorial Hospital. He is enthusiastic about medical education and clinical research, and his teaching style is as profitable as his knife skills. The "External Injury Power Company" he hosted has been well received. He has been voted for medical students for many years and was selected as a good attending physician.
Popular blog operated by Peter Fu: "Big and Big Things in Acute Epidemic Surgery" is the first prize in the 2011 Sixth Global Chinese Blog/Best Life Comprehensive Category. It has thousands of blog posts and has accumulated more than two million people. The three published collections of prose "Fastfulness: A Note on Life and Death of an Emergency Surgeon", "Doctors, Not Medical Death: 20 Consciousness and Thoughts in the Emergency Clinic" and "The Separation of the Medical Triangle", are combined with the "Life Trilogy", which uses words to lead readers to reflect on the relationship between life meaning and medical diseases. The Trilogy of Life was released in simplified version in 2016 and was praised by China National University of Science and Technology as "a surgeon who tells stories and a writer who can start a knife."
