It was not time to hug "I still want to hug this child." Facing the baby's body, which was not crying and did not move, the mother's eyes were still gentle, but this gentleness had almost unbearable heartache and heartbreak. She fi...
It was not time to hug "I still want to hug this child." Facing the baby's body, which was not crying and did not move, the mother's eyes were still gentle, but this gentleness had almost unbearable heartache and heartbreak. She finally did not shed her eyes because the deepest grief was not clear. The nearly term pregnant woman came to the emergency clinic and said that she suddenly felt that she could not feel the fetus and wanted to come and check it out.
We swiped the ultrasound and found that the mother had fetal plate previa, combined with bleeding in the womb palace, and the fetus had no heartbeat.
The connection between the mother and the fetus has a protective mechanism. Even if the mother's heartbeat stops, the fetus has no blood supply, or even the fetus heartbeat stops, as long as the movement is fast, and a knife is directly cut into a caesarean section within ten minutes, there is still a chance to rescue the child back; so sometimes movies often perform such a scene, helping pregnant women with chest compressions and heart pulmonary rehabilitation on one side of the emergency clinic, and directly opening a caesarean section on the other side to deliver the fetus. But the child was already too furious and his heartbeat had stopped for how long.
The baby in the womb of a stillbirth must be removed with a knife and the blood in the palace should be cleaned up, because the stillbirth and blood will eventually form a source of infection, which will eventually lead to the mother's hemorrhagic shock. Caesarean section generally involves hemispheric anesthesia. The lumbar spine of the pregnant woman is injected with anesthetic drugs. The pregnant woman is awake, but the lower body does not feel pain. The main reason is that the medicines of general anesthesia will make the baby relaxed and the baby relaxed and lose strength, which will lead to a significant increase in blood loss in the pregnant woman during surgery, increasing the risk of the pregnant woman.
The deepest grief is that there is no eyebrowBecause pregnant women are awake, generally speaking, after the child is born, we will clean the child, cover it and keep it warm, and then take a look at it, and let the child lie in the mother's heart. The mother's heartbeat is still warm; some people think that if the mother can hug her just after giving birth, feel the warmth and the mother's heartbeat, such children will not be anxious and will be more stable.
But if the fetus has died, it will be a very tolerant thing for the mother to do half-body anesthesia. When the child is taken out, there is no loud crying sound, no medical staff say joyfully, and the air in the knife room is silently condensed, so that the mother can experience these things together. Sometimes we feel very sorry. The dead fetus is soft and has no strength in its limbs. The color is a terrible purple-black color. If you have seen it, you won’t want to see it again. Generally, we will handle it after it is covered and treated as a stillbirth. Then we will take it from the elevator inside the knife room to the chanting hall in the basement, and then hand it over to the mercenary company to handle the subsequent rebirth and burial matters.
But this mom is very special. She said she still has a desire to hold the child.
This makes us difficult because the recovery room is a place for "living people" to rest, and we have never allowed the baby or the reborn patients to come to the recovery room; but we also want to fulfill our last wish for the mother for this child.
So we could only pretend that the child was still alive, and we helped the child clean it, and then put the child in his clothes as usual and nothing happened. The mother was also very calm and did not fall any eyebrows. She just hugged a baby in a quiet manner and lay peacefully in the recovery room, just like a child still alive.
Finally, after she became a mother for twenty minutes, she let her child go and gave us …….
When you choose an anaesthesia doctor, you are destined to see many sad scenes; and without sound does not mean peace, and without eyes, is truly sad.
When I want to see you again, I can't say goodbye. When I want to hug you, I don't have the chance to hug you.
※ This article is excerpted from "Happy Practice: A Person of Anesthesiologist's Practice"."Happy Practice: A Person of Anesthesiologist's Practice"
Author: Active Ejaculation
Publisher: Joint Publishing
Publication Date: 2022/12/01
