[The key points of this article] A female netizen shared the story of her friend and her mother-in-law tearing her face. My mother-in-law recently contacted friends, but she turned out to be just trying to deal with the troubles of daily life for he...
--by ChatGPT
The unhappy relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is being ripped into a tear-out relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem in many families. A female netizen revealed that her friend had tear-out face with her mother-in-law, but recently the other party took the initiative to contact her. After learning the reason from her friend, she blocked her mother-in-law's phone in discomfort. As soon as the post was released, everyone fell to the ground and supported him.A female netizen said in her face book "Do Mushroom Jiuji Mother-in-law Discussion Zone" that her friend had been ripped by her mother-in-law and she simply broke into contact. However, her mother-in-law took the initiative to contact her. Her friend thought that the other party had awakened and repented, but she did not expect that she learned about her mother-in-law's intention from her friend afterwards, which made her very angry.
It turns out that my mother-in-law thought she was old and her daughter was married, so she believed that every day's life was complicated, such as cooking, sweeping, and messing around, should let her daughter-in-law come and handle it, and serve herself, so that her mother-in-law can enjoy a happy life. After the original PO friend learned the idea, he immediately blocked his mother-in-law's phone, but he also said with concern, "Will your friends around you say merciless?"
After many years, my mother-in-law took the initiative to contact her. When my daughter-in-law found out the reason, she angrily blocked the phone message area and fell to the ground and supported her daughter-in-law, "Closed it, please find a child if you have anything to do", "I should have blocked it long ago, what are you waiting for? What do you mean to be someone else's daughter to take care of her?", "It's better if my family and friends are blocked and don't come. I love them and I can't hear it anyway", "I'll sorry for myself if I don't block it," "When When you tear your face apart in the year, you should be said to be heartless! If you refuse for a few more times, you will just keep your status alive, "You don't blame yourself if you are beaten up." "No! A woman doesn't care, why would you let your daughter-in-law come... Did your daughter-in-law take her wealth?" "My mother-in-law asked for it. If you don't have good fortune to your daughter-in-law, you have to ask your daughter-in-law to serve you when you are old. Don't do good to others." 5 Methods to resolve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law How to solve the unpleasant relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem of many families' brain-burning tendons. The problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be improved through the following methods:1. Good-intentioned communication: When solving the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most important thing is good-intentioned communication. Both of them must be willing to listen to each other's opinions and understand the other's feelings. When talking, you should avoid aggressive language and attitudes, and deliberately ignore the other party's needs and feelings.
2. Respect each other: The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires respect, mutual understanding and tolerance. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not a relationship between superiors and subordinates, but an equal relationship between partners. We should respect each other's life habits and values.
3. Clear boundaries: There should be clear boundaries between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and both should know their roles and responsibilities. The distribution of family affairs can be negotiated and negotiated so that everyone can participate in and pay.
4. Keep a close contact: The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be kept in close contact, and you can communicate through phone, video chat, etc. You can spend more time communicating with your mother-in-law and increase your feelings.
5. Request for third-party assistance: If there are conflicts and conflicts in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you can consider seeking third-party assistance, such as family guidance, psychological consultation, etc. With the help of professionals, problems can be effectively solved and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be rebuilt.